I've done some thinking since my last post, The flipside of fantasy and fun, and although I agree with what I said it seems to me that there's more to it.
First of all, I talked to Stanley about it and his perspective was quite different. Maybe I'm just a raging bag of horny, but he seems to think our sex life is up and running just fine. To be fair, I have wanted to screw around the clock pretty much since conception. Like, I am never not in the mood. So my gauge of what's "normal" or "enough" could be idling a little high.
And, I must concede, I do still have hormonal days here and there, where I tend to think things are worse than they are. That may have been one of them.
I've come to think that a larger factor in our lack of kink probably has less to do with our overall sexual activity than with our state of mind. We're about to start a family - while we're excited to meet this little person we've created, we're also soaking up the quiet and indulging in down time. We're thoroughly enjoying each other in the simplest of ways. There's a giddy sparkle in Stanley's eyes when I pick him up from work, always a tender kiss, and lots and lots of hugs. Physical touch and proximity has been a great comfort to me and an almost palpable desire for many months now; I tend to stay close to him, almost following him around like a pet.
Like, we're kinda just not that into brutality right now, lol.
We both find kink fascinating, and we know there is much more to explore and much farther we can take our play. But it will still be there for us once we get back to our routine.
And I'm kinda okay with that.
First of all, I talked to Stanley about it and his perspective was quite different. Maybe I'm just a raging bag of horny, but he seems to think our sex life is up and running just fine. To be fair, I have wanted to screw around the clock pretty much since conception. Like, I am never not in the mood. So my gauge of what's "normal" or "enough" could be idling a little high.
And, I must concede, I do still have hormonal days here and there, where I tend to think things are worse than they are. That may have been one of them.
I've come to think that a larger factor in our lack of kink probably has less to do with our overall sexual activity than with our state of mind. We're about to start a family - while we're excited to meet this little person we've created, we're also soaking up the quiet and indulging in down time. We're thoroughly enjoying each other in the simplest of ways. There's a giddy sparkle in Stanley's eyes when I pick him up from work, always a tender kiss, and lots and lots of hugs. Physical touch and proximity has been a great comfort to me and an almost palpable desire for many months now; I tend to stay close to him, almost following him around like a pet.
Like, we're kinda just not that into brutality right now, lol.
We both find kink fascinating, and we know there is much more to explore and much farther we can take our play. But it will still be there for us once we get back to our routine.
And I'm kinda okay with that.
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